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When written, I would think Cary is a boy. When I hear it, however, unaware of the spelling, I would assume that Cary is a girl. That's not to say that Cary is a bad name for a boy - it's nice, and I can perfectly imagine a boy named Cary. It's just that the general public is more used to the name being used on girls (mostly spelt Carrie).

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If you're very worried about any confusion people might get from the name, I would suggest just using it as a mn or using a name with a similiar meaning/sound.