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Names can belong to wide varieties of people! Something that might genuinely help your friend is that Olivia has been very popular for a long time and seems to be starting to fade. This could mean that as a baby Olivia grows up, most of her namesakes will be older than she is. And this might bother her when she's 45 and people assume she's 55! On the other hand, she might well not worry at all.

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A good trick is to spin a coin. Heads for Alice, tails for Eloise. Whichever comes up, the spinner will have an immediate, instinctive reaction, either Hurray! or Oh dear! And this is also genuinely helpful.