When I see Mandee (with two Es), I think of "manatee." Personally, since the
Mandy spelling is out, I would choose Mandie. However, Mandie
Marie looks a little funny because of the -ie and -ie endings together.
Mandi looks abrupt to me... So I don't know; tough question.
What's wrong with
Mandy? Since you and your first daughter have the same name, I don't see a problem with your second daughter and your husband having almost the same spelling of names.
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All children, except one, grow up.... You always know after you are two. Two is the beginning of the end.