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in reply to a message by Bex
I would not shorten it until or unless she asked me to shorten it - in natural respect for the person and her name.
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Those nicknames sound fun... I do not have children - and rarely interact with them.
I meant this answer as though I were an adult in the fixed or given situation "if you met a girl ... ____ ... what would you shorten it to" would not imply family or whether I were close enough to the family or child to shorten it. I've always hated when folks take it upon themselves to shorten my name--which more happened throughout youth by an adult acquaintance of the family--or by teachers, folks in church--mostly because I hate to be called 'Barb'. So I mean those instances when someone introduces me "and this is my friend, "Barbra"; and the acquaintance immediately shortens it to "Barb"; or that a teacher should decide to do this. That is all. It has less to do with resect for the name, though respect for the person should always be of utmost importance - and more involves respect for the degree of relation, against which any adult in her rightful mind should take extensive care not to impose.
I have plenty of friends for whom I have special names; many of which do not involve their formal names or commonly associated Pet Names.
I meant this answer as though I were an adult in the fixed or given situation "if you met a girl ... ____ ... what would you shorten it to" would not imply family or whether I were close enough to the family or child to shorten it. I've always hated when folks take it upon themselves to shorten my name--which more happened throughout youth by an adult acquaintance of the family--or by teachers, folks in church--mostly because I hate to be called 'Barb'. So I mean those instances when someone introduces me "and this is my friend, "Barbra"; and the acquaintance immediately shortens it to "Barb"; or that a teacher should decide to do this. That is all. It has less to do with resect for the name, though respect for the person should always be of utmost importance - and more involves respect for the degree of relation, against which any adult in her rightful mind should take extensive care not to impose.
I have plenty of friends for whom I have special names; many of which do not involve their formal names or commonly associated Pet Names.
This message was edited 8/17/2016, 3:12 PM
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