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[Opinions] A boy named Violet
There was a birth announcement in my town over the weekend: Violet, who I was pleasantly surprised to discover is a boy. At first we all thought it was ridiculous, but the more I think about it, the more I think Violet's a cool, handsome name for a boy. But I feel that way about a lot of names. What do you think?
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I wasn't expecting it to work but it does.
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I don't like it for a boy. I view -let as feminine. I don't mind flower names for boys, but even Rose and Iris have more boy energy to me.
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I have always thought that Violet is very close to Violent and it makes me wonder if the name was accidently misspelled. Otherwise the poor boy is a Johnny Cash song in waiting“..But the meanest thing that my daddy ever did
Was before he left, he went and named me VioletWell, he must've thought that it was quite a joke
And I got a lot of laughs from a lots of folk
Seems I had to fight my whole life through
Some gal would giggle and I'd turn red
And some guy'd laugh and I'd bust his head
I tell you, life ain't easy for a boy named Violet”
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I like it, in theory. I can see definitely see Violet on a boy. But obviously people will assume he's a girl when seeing his name, which could be a little annoying for him.
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Poor kid. I wouldn't wish it on a girl.
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I love it. Voilet on girls is becoming dull. I also think that Lotus, Briony, Wren, Opal and Winter could work on boys.
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Oh, yes, I can definitely imagine this on a boy. Allow me to amuse myself with combinations:Violet Christopher
Violet Bernard
Violet Sebastian
Violet Jerome
Violet Anselm
Violet Conrad
Violet Esau
Violet Jabez
Violet Ephraim
Violet Waldo
Violet Walter
Violet Peter
Violet Samson
Violet Basil
Violet Cecil
Violet Oswin
Violet Henry
Violet RogerYes!

This message was edited 3/4/2024, 7:33 PM

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Don't like it for either especially a boy
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It could grow on me, but my first reaction is that it sounds like a girl. Just the flower imagery feels 'feminine' even though it doesn't need to. I know someone who named their baby Violet and deliberately kept from gendering the baby, so I think it was meant to be a gender neutral name, but I kept thinking of the baby as a girl because of the name Violet.
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I seriously can’t picture this for a boy.
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Agree
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I think it will work well. And personally, I feel the same way about most flower and gem names.
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I hope he goes by Vi, I love feminine nicknames on boys.
I'm afraid this is just going to exacerbate the Violet-Violent connection though.
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I hope not. In my experience, people born in February are very pleasant overall. (Violet's also the only leap-year baby I've ever met. Who knew?)
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I just mean people are more like to hear/read their name is 'Violent' because they are a boy and Violet is a "girls' name".
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I have never considered Violet as a potential unisex name, but huh. It works! Neat. The vibe I get is a bit like how I see Nightingale as unisex except the weirdness is dialed down a lot; it also seems a bit like Garnet to me.

This message was edited 3/4/2024, 6:27 PM

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Do you know what the middle name was? I'm so curious.
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I think it was Alexander or one of its variants.
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Violet Alexander. Huh, I like it!
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I think it's interesting. Could work well.
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I mean, considering Violet is technically just a color, there's no reason it can't work on both.
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