Well I would break the news to him gently. I would use the
Gregory scenario as an example so he can understand why you wouldn't want to use the name
Anthony.
Here are some names that come to my mind when I think of the "
Anthony" category that you or your husband might like or not :)
AndrewMatthewPatrickBenjaminDanielNicholasSamuelAlexanderJonathanAdam