I quite like Tobin, actually more than Tobias as I think it could better avoid the Toby nickname.
Wiley, however, get's a "no" from me. Wile E. Coyote is my main association, and aside from the cartoon character it sounds rather babyish to my ears. I find both Wyatt and Riley superior (though I'm not big on Riley, either).
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