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In theory, I think it's fine to choose names outwith your own heritage. But in practice, they'll often raise eyebrows or just seem odd with your surname. I admit I *would* wonder, if I saw a redheaded child named Muhammad or a Spanish-speaking child named Tighearnan. I wouldn't think there was anything wrong with it - it would just surprise me.

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Then again, the same redheaded child could pull off another Arabic name - Layla or Samara would work fine - and I wouldn't be surprised to see a Hispanic child named Conan. So I suppose it depends on how ethnic the name *seems*, rather than the actual ethnicity. Hope this makes sense :-/

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Esteban does sound quite out-there to me, as an English speaker. I think of firstname-surname combos such as Esteban Smith and Esteban Jones, and it would seem a little odd. But if your surname is less bread-and-butter English, it might work.