I don't think
Alice would have any problem with NN's. I know an
Alice, and she never gets called anything else.
I seriously know what you mean, though. Usually I don't like nicknames, but I've started to like them more because I love Russian names the best now and their diminutives are SO CUTE. I had a problem when I was really young because I loved the name
Emmanuel but hated
Manny. I don't like either now. Now, I'm having the same problem, but with
Dmitri. I don't really like the sound of
Mitya and it feels weird saying it. It seems sometimes like Russian soft T's should only be in verbs. I'm trying to like
Dima, but it's slow going since I have a kind of strong association with it and then there's the fact that it's feminine in Arabic...
The nickname problem is such a pain, no?