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[Opinions] Peter
Peter is the first male name I can ever remember loving. I still like it a lot - it's classic, handsome, strong without being macho, and currently, imo, underused. The one problem with it, which you could probably guess, is it's use as a slang term for "penis." It's silly. I have *never* come across someone using that in real life. I've seen people reference it on here, and I read it once in a book. That's it. But it bugs me. It's like an itch. It's like a beautiful cozy sweater that has a little stain on it and I can never decide if the stain is too noticeable to stop me from wearing it. So, I guess, what are your thoughts? Is the stain too big? And what do you think of the name Peter in general?http://www.behindthename.com/pnl/87410
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Haha. I've never heard it as a slang for penis! Johnson is more common, and it doesn't result in much teasing to people with the surname Johnson... I'm glad you love it. I think i's almost perfect too. Except somehow, I just don't really like the sound of it! That's the stain on my sweater - it's kind of like I love everything about the sweater, except that it's an uncomfortable material.
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My younger son is named Peter. I love the name.
I don't think I'll read any of the other responses-it's true many people object to the name re:the slang connection, and I don't want to read that. My son is fine with his name.
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Is this an American thing because I've never heard this reference so much as uttered in whispers in the UK (and we have some pretty strange slang terms for penis)?I used to like it, it got on to my long list for a while, then fell off again. I'm more so into modern boys names these days but Peter does still appeal.My biggest association is Peter Pan.
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Apparently it's an American thing. I Googled it and several sources say it's "US" or "chiefly US".
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I don't like the name, and I've been known to point out here that it's a slang term for "penis". But I just give that as a further reason (it's definitely not the only reason) that I don't like it. I don't think that it's really a deterrent to using the name. I remember back in the late 1970s reading an article in a magazine, which mentioned that Jim Morrison of The Doors allegedly once exposed himself to a concert audience. The article used the phrase "waved his flaccid peter". That's actually the only time I've seen or heard the term used that I can recall.
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It's possible that the slang term is a regional thing. It was definitely still alive and kicking when I was a kid though. The boys at my school had a favourite song that began,
"There's a 'skeeter on your Peter, whack it off".
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Where do you live? (You don't have to get specific, obviously, but just general country/region?)
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Ontario, Canada
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The slang term is archaic imo, so I doubt it'd be an issue for a Peter in real life (though since it does exist, it's easy for people who already dislike the name to point it out as a deterrent: people who already dislike the design of your favorite sweater are automatically going to be looking for flaws in it, but should that stop you from wearing it?). That said, I don't like Peter much. It sounds snively to me, and when I try to parse out why...Peter Pan syndrome, Peter Pettigrew, and "petering out" come to mind. I also never found the disciple Peter to be particularly likable, personality-wise.

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I really like Peter, I would use it if my DH didn't dislike it. I've never heard it used as a slang term.
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We named our son Peter without hesitation, and he's never had a moment's trouble with it. And as a nn for 'penis', it really doesn't come close to Willie and Dick, and indeed Rod, and there are plenty of William, Richard and Roderick/Rodney people of all ages who are similarly unaffected.
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Too big, unfortunately.
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I think Peter is lovely and underused. I've never heard that slang term before... If you were talking about the name Dick, I'd be a bit cautious but I don't see anything wrong with using Peter. It's classic and handsome.
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