I, too, have seen various meanings for
Emily. The "industrious" one seems quite popular, and "eager" and "admiring" both are quoted fairly often.
However, this site is correct 99% of the time in my experience, and in this case it's right. From
http://snipurl.com/4o8t (a respected online Latin dictionary):
"aemulus -a -um [emulous , rivalling]; in bad sense, [jealous]. M. or f. as subst., [a rival], esp. in love."
and
"Aemilius -a -um [name of an old patrician family at Rome]. Hence adj. Aemilianus -a -um , [relating to the 'gens Aemiliana'; a surname of Scipio Africanus minor]."
Despite its overuse, I still do like
Emily, though it's not one of my favourites anymore. If you love it, I think you should disregard the meaning...I'd worry more about how common it is.
~ Caitlín
"Blue tinted individuals who go about armed to the teeth and quoting twelfth-century poetry are not easy to comprehend." ~
Lloyd Alexander