This isn't meant to start an argument or force my opinions upon you or anything of the sorts, I just want to say how I feel about it. I hope you don't mind.
I know that you like some feminine names on boys, masculine names on girls, etc., but...
Michael? I guess it just seems so handsome and masculine to me. Kind of like naming a girl
Johnathon,
James,
Alexander or
Thomas. It just doesn't work for me, I guess. I prefer the name
Anais on a boy, but it's feminine. Frankly a lot of people have never heard of the name
Anais in their life (despite
Anais Nin), so it's less obviously a gender-bender. All in all it's the decision of the parent to name their child, but I really don't see the appeal in it. Plus, does it really matter if you don't like any of the feminine forms of
Michael? You don't
have to have a feminine alternative for it, or even use it on a girl at all.
Alexander,
Alexis,
Aleksei and all other masculine forms of
Alexander are some of my favorite names ever, but I positively loathe every feminine form, so I just decided to not bother with a feminine form of it at all. Also, I don't like any feminine forms of
Patrick, so just decided that it would stay masculine and no form of it would be used for a girl. Now, correct me if I'm wrong, but I think you rather like the names
Milo and
Miles, right? They're honestly nms, but are forms of
Michael, and seem much more feminine. Miley is an actual feminine form. Why not try those?
Now, again, all naming choices are up to you. I hope I didn't seem like I was forcing my own ideas upon you in this post. If I did come off like that, I apologize. This was simply a post with my own opinions and nothing more.
This message was edited 3/20/2008, 4:05 PM