Lael,
"Mental masturbation" was the term that brought out my yellow flag. One can bring up an issue nicely, yes?
=A= handled the situation calmly, and I gave him / her credit for that. As for not asking a question in the original post, that's true. Is that against the rules? I just didn't think it merited a harsh rebuke like that.
Fer,
Are you offended? I hope not. :-/