I always thought this name was lovely. I just love the sound of it, from the sound alone it's probably the prettiest name in the world. I also think it looks pretty written down.
There are however two problems. One is that it means "sorrows" in Spanish which isn't really that bad because
Dolores and
Lola are used in Spanish speaking countries as well and nobody cares. But it kind of bothers me anyway. Then the biggest problem is of course the association with
Vladimir Nabokov's novel. Don't get me wrong. I love that novel, it is probably one of the best books that has ever been written even though the story is disturbing. Only people who never read it could say it was trashy. The problem is that
Lolita is a slang term for a sexually active teen.
I wonder if you think I could use it anyway. I wonder if people who will meet a
Lolita in real life could get that association out of their minds.
The other possibility is using it as a nickname for
Dolores. What do you think about that ? The character in the book was actually
Dolores and called
Dolly. Only
Humbert Humbert called her
Lolita.
Then there's the possibility of using
Lola. What do you think of
Lola nn
Lolita ? The problem is that I can see
Lola getting trendy. Do you know any ? Do you prefer
Lola or
Lolita or
Dolores ?
Dolly ?
Do you think
Dolores nn
Dolly or
Lolita could make a comeback ?