[Opinions] that's pretty crummy (m)
Number one: Would you name somebody Wrestler, or Dentist?
Number two: In all probability this kid will beve rbe anything close to a ballerina. If you felt the need to mention her "special needs" at all, I'm guessing they are pretty severe, and that kind of rules out being a real ballerina.
Number Three: I think the parents might have some "special needs" themselves.