I've only ever heard GRAY-um (or, in Australian, GRAY'm) and as far as I know, that's correct.
Graham Rhys and
Graham Walter are fantastic. My cousin is
Ross Graeme - I don't like that spelling, but
Graham Ross would be another good
Graham combo.
:-)
♦ Chrisell ♦
All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us. - J.R.R. Tolkien.