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[Opinions] Isla
Dear ReadersDo your baby a favour. Do not call her Isla (or him Islay).The reason for this is that every idiot on the planet pronounces the 's' - usually as 'z', just to make sure it's really ugly.I used to be lumbered with this name. I deed-polled it because it was either a deed poll or decking the next person who added a zed to it.The deed-poll was one of the best things I ever did: other people are more confident about dealing with a person with a name that they recognise, I am more confident about meeting new people. [I expected my increase in confidence, I was surprised by the difference it made to other people.]I would seriously suggest to anyyone that if your name is hanging around your neck like the ancient mariner's albatross, change it. The change depends upon your situation - you might need to fix semi-literate parents' spelling (e.g. change Micheal to Michael), you might need to find a spelling that clarifies the pronounciation (Gaelic names are shockers for having a raft of silent letters and letters that are not pronounced as they are written) or you might need to ditch a train-wreck of a name and start again.

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Isla  ·  DragonLute  ·  12/21/2011, 8:12 PM
Re: Isla  ·  Speranza  ·  12/23/2011, 5:40 AM
Re: Isla  ·  Calla (nsi)  ·  12/22/2011, 6:49 AM
Ditto.  ·  Bear  ·  12/22/2011, 10:43 AM
Re: Ditto.  ·  Speranza  ·  12/23/2011, 5:38 AM
Tritto  ·  Ismene  ·  12/23/2011, 10:35 AM
Re: Isla  ·  insane romantic  ·  12/22/2011, 1:39 AM
Re: Isla  ·  Anneza  ·  12/21/2011, 10:06 PM
Re: Isla  ·  Llewella  ·  12/22/2011, 6:32 AM