At least Zaviera (I prefer
Xaviera) looks like a real name to me. But
Haven is probably more common and therefore safer.
What is so bad about Zaviera?
I don't get this male/female thing about Andy/Andi, since they both sound the same. But I agree that
Andrew, nn
Andy, would have been better.
Andrew is still all male, I think, so no gender confusion.
Why do you think your own son's name is horrible? Did you not have any say in his naming? Or did you (like your friend) change taste afterwards? I am curious what this "horrible" name is.
Maybe give a daughter the name
May or
Maya since she will be a
May baby! But maybe it is a boy?
Congratulations!
"But it’s all right now.
I learned my lesson well.
You see you can’t please everyone
So you got to please yourself."
Rick Nelson, GardenParty
"It does not become me to make myself smaller than I am." (
Edith Södergran 1891-1923)