I agree that it's not terribly attractive as a fn (or mn, for that matter).
BTW, I love your profile pic! What a gorgeous family. :) Can't wait to see a pic of baby
Kieran.
~Heather~"Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands?" - Ernest Gaines"When the power of love overcomes the love of power, then the world will know peace" - Jimi Hendrix