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I don't think there's any real objective "right" or "wrong" for this kind of thing -- it's just what's acceptable in your family. Your sister may be too young to offer her input, but surely you've got other close relatives (namely your parents, but also siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles) who would have a better sense than we do. It definitely wouldn't be okay in my family, but there are many families in which it would be just fine. :)

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-- Sarah