[Opinions] Warning: rant
in reply to a message by menno_girl
I like a lot of surnames too. I think Kinsella would make a very pretty girl's name. But I wouldn't ever use it because I have no Kinsellas in my family. Now, my mother's mn is Murphy. That might make a funky fn for a boy. Plus, it would warm my family's collective hearts. See the difference?
Traditionally, the whole point of using a surnames as a fn is to pass down heritage. When people start opening up the telephone book and using it as an a la carte menu, the practice loses its beauty and meaning. It becomes tacky. Like someone buying a book because it looks nice on a shelf, but never reading it. It's just shallow.
Sorry to go on and on. This is just a pet peeve of mine.
Sodero would be a great fn, if it's from your family tree.
Traditionally, the whole point of using a surnames as a fn is to pass down heritage. When people start opening up the telephone book and using it as an a la carte menu, the practice loses its beauty and meaning. It becomes tacky. Like someone buying a book because it looks nice on a shelf, but never reading it. It's just shallow.
Sorry to go on and on. This is just a pet peeve of mine.
Sodero would be a great fn, if it's from your family tree.
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I agree, except ...
... I don't think Sodero would be great even if it were in someone's family tree. It starts with "sod" :-/
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... I don't think Sodero would be great even if it were in someone's family tree. It starts with "sod" :-/
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♥Elinor♥
I agree too.
Miranda
Proud adopter of 15 punctuation marks; see my profile for their names.
Proud adopter of 15 punctuation marks; see my profile for their names.
Fully agreed.