I have a cousin named
Arabella. I think she's 10 or 11 now...it's been a while since I've seen her.
Anyway, I think
Daphne Arabella is a great combo. I wouldn't use it as a first name for the reasons you gave- too frilly and fussy. NMS.
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Volleyballs in formaldehyde tend to leave me cold. *
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Fiammetta